To commit or not to.

Himanshu Verma
3 min readFeb 8, 2018

“Commitment is an act, not a word.” Jean-Paul Sartre.

The foundation of any relationship determines the forecast of its symphony.

In this fast moving paced world we often get disguised and feel pity to individuate between the real and virtual sets of a facet of life particularly known as relationships.

Anything which is unconditional carries no boundaries and all of the life’s play which happens in these boundaries are invaluable, divine and limitless.

In life everything comes at a price and the price in this present context of relationship is patience. Being living in the world were most of the platforms (Social media) are made to bridge the distances and unlike the contrary to bridge the gap in-between presently its taking away the individual’s space of freedom and peace. Any kind relationship grooms on the parameter of respect, insecurities and divinity.

Just think about the past time’s cheerfulness and emotional pitfalls we get while the postman bhaiya drop letters or postcards from a distant relative or loved one’s. The letter carries all the compassionate writings which are penned downed directly from the core of the heart and the onus of that goes to the worth of patience and awaiting for the next letters which is the divine connection that is gained without any glitches of constant social media pings and blue ticks.

Anything that comes fast goes fast. Everything which is earned with sufferings is always worthy in the end, same goes with the relationships. With the advancement of Technology, Cell Phone’s and App revolution, were like or dislike is in our left or right swipe of our finger tips which can easily conveys the fact that things which comes easily goes easily. Once we get attached to an individual we try to align the coordinates of each other and while doing that we often loose the thread of relationship by getting impatient (thanks to the social media), but we often forget that its the knot in the broken thread that make’s it more stronger.

“The one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Invisible Monsters.

Its the magnitude of insecurities, differences and dislikes which makes one person to feel, to commit or to get attached to the other person. Commitment to anything demarcates the thin line between infatuation and passion. Commitment is a catalyst which gives the oar in the hands of an individual to cross all the ripples of highs and lows of a relationship, and to keep moving forward, the oar should be hurled continuously with patience, admiration and soulful love, and as the line goes.

“Out beyond the ideas of wrongdoing
and rightdoing there is a field.
I’ll meet you there.

When the soul lies down in that grass
the world is too full to talk about.”

Jalaluddin Mevlana Rumi — مولوی.

Love!

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